Throughout the entire story, The Misfit is portrayed as the symbol of evil because he was in jail; he escaped from jail, and he committed murders. She abandons the moral high ground she had held and accepts the common humanity. She worries aloud to the rest of the family, Bailey her son , his wife, June Star and John Wesley, their children, and the baby, about The Misfit, whom she has been reading about in the newspaper. She is pre-scented by O'Connor as being a prim and proper lady dressed in a suit, hat, and white cotton gloves. The Misfit could see right through her phony and fake plead. She wants the children to visit different part of world and be broad.
She is also a very well rounded and dynamic character. . The grandmother wishes to go to East Tennessee to visit old acquaintances while Bailey wishes to journey to Florida. As she is talking about goodness her definition of goodness to Red Sammy she tells him that she blames Europe for the way the world is. Although she is an old lady, this behavior is really out of line. She tells him about an escaped murderer who is going to Florida named the Misfit in hopes to change his mind. On the way to their vacation spot in Florida, the Grandmother remembers a plantation in Georgia she used to visit when she was a young lady and desperately wants to see it.
Then a gunshot came from the woods. The grandmother is so self-centered that she just imposes her wish on those people around her. When they set out to Florida, she dresses in her best clothes and an ostentatious hat lest no one can recognize her as a refined lady if she dies in an accident along the road. And that is the method that the author uses to relate her to the theme of the story. Unlike the grandmother, who simply assumes that she is morally superior to everyone else, the Misfit seriously questions the meaning of life.
And that means one more thing about being a lady: it's has to do with blood, with what kind of family into which you're born. She is naïve to the bone and submissive to the core. It is then that the Misfit recoils from the penetrating charity of the grandmother and shoots her. Throughout the story, the grandmother is portrayed as a selfish character that puts her status and pleasure before others. She says that the house had six white columns and was at the end of an oak tree driveway. In the story A Good Man Is Hard to Find the grandmother considers herself to be a lady as well as a good person. Thus, suffering is an essential part of receiving grace, and with the help of the Misfit, the grandmother has made this journey of suffering, a journey from spiritual blindness and selfishness to suffering, and finally grace.
Unfortunately, the grandmother's character won't help us all that much in resolving the question about grace. Though The Misfit systematically murders her son and his family, she never pleads for their lives, because it is not her own. Instead of being superior, she realizes, she is flawed like everyone else. According to her understanding, black people, especially kids are supposed to be poor. The grandmother later realizes that the house with secret panels she told the children is in Tennessee not in Georgia. She is also praising the Misfit by calling him a good man and trying to save her life.
She is also kind of manipulator in a way that she insists her family to change the plan. At the end of the story, the grandmother shows a very obvious selfishness act where is only concerned about her life only and shows zero concern about the rest of the family. But does Granny get grace? All we can say for sure about the moment of grace itself is that it remains mysterious. When speaking with Red Sam Butts, she recites clichés about how much better and simpler things used to be, but when faced with the threat of death by the Misfit she is completely unprepared to face her own mortality. Most of her characters were southern protestants who were forced to undergo change as a result of painful and violent situations, by doing so this brought them closer to God.
However she is not telling the truth about the house but just making the children want to see it right away and would compel their father to take them there. In the beginning of the story, an argument ensues between our grandmother and Bailey, her son, about whether to take their vacation to Florida or Tennessee. If she was smart enough to be quite Misfit probably would let them go. At the beginning of the story when we first realize her desire to visit her childhood house, she is being a very selfish person. She is the only one who overcomes herself and extends true charity to another. When the family encounters the Misfit and his gang, the grandmother recognizes him as the Misfit.
When Bailey didn't respond, she promptly turned to his wife and told her daughter-in-law that the trip to East Tennessee would broaden the children's mind. Some of her qualities include selfish and a pushy person. Once again it shows how self-centered and selfish she is. How does she try to get Bailey not to go to Florida? Regardless of the consequences, the grandmother finds an alternative way to manipulate Bailey for changing his route to the old house she wanted to see. There the grandmother had her moment of understanding which resulted in her death.
Red Sammy Butts owner of The Tower tells the grandmother about the time that he sold some gas on credit to two men but that they never returned to pay him. She is constantly placing judgment upon others. However, after taking an unwanted turn down a winding road, the family comes face to face with a violent criminal. Technically, it is the grandmother recognizing the identity of the Misfit that gets all her family killed. Her style is always a bit more subtle.
When they get on an old abandoned road the grandmother realizes that the house is in Tennessee. Grace, as O'Connor sees it, is supposed to be something sudden, miraculous, undeserved, and not produced by the human being upon whom it acts. Since John Wesley uses violent actions to get what he wants, that is the reason why he is described as a violent character. It's not about her, she implies, it's about the children. One of the first indications was when the grandma was the first one to go in the car despite what she said the day before. Only when she is going to be killed does she realize that he is her son.